Crushing Krisis

Comic Books, Drag Race, & Life in New Zealand

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Where is all the linky love? I mean, sure, there are over two hundred people blogging right now as if their lives depended on it, but i’m not seeing a whole lot of crosslinking going on. How else are we all expected to mock each other through the dead of the night?

In my continued trip around the ring Brad Walsh is blogging for RAINN, and he’s featuring lots of Tori Amos content, including the cover of her new album’s sampler disc! Meanwhile, Moveable Beast seems to be posting pictures of all the places she’s lived during her life… definitely an interesting one to follow. Syncopate‘s nifty coffee cup caught my eye while i cruised through the ring to this which just made me laugh.

You can cruise in either direction around the ring via the sides of the Blogathon graphic at the top right of the page. I encourage you to look around … some excellent things are going on.

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Life does funny things sometimes.

A little over two years ago i was sitting on a shag carpeted floor, tearing up. Across the room from me was Lindsay, who was directing her attention at our friend Kate, who had just decided to move a quarter of the way across from the country. Resting in Lindsay’s lap was a shiny hardcover of Dr. Seuss’s Oh The Places You Will Go, and she was equally tearful as she read it to Kate. In that second something in my head gelled, something about the way that Kate made me feel like i was really a part of something here at Drexel – and now she was leaving that something behind.


That night i sat in my dorm room and wrote Never Say Goodbye all in one sitting, revising over and over again until it resembled something very close to what it is now. And then i hid it… sat on it for the entire summer, afraid to play a song that was so directly personal and not just about some failed attempt at romance or a missed kiss. I finally played it for Kate the night before she left, and it felt like a load of creative bricks was lifted off my chest as the words finally reached the ears they were meant for. And then i didn’t see her for almost a year.

Flash forward two years. Lindsay is now my roommate living directly underneath me, and Kate is staying with us for the summer now that she’s back in Philadelphia. The two of them are moving out of our apartment and into a new one in the next few months. And the both of them are going grocery shopping for me since i’m chained to the computer all day.


It might not sound as though this is such an unusual twist in the light of how connected i felt to the two of them years ago, but i definitely couldn’t have ever predicted that anything would wind up in quite this way. So, life is sortof funny, friends are entirely wonderful, and “Never Say Goodbye” is for the girls downstairs; i love you both.

https://crushingkrisis.com/2002/07/85288286/